Be Frivolous

THE ANSWERS YOU WANT, CAN'T BE ACHIEVED AT YOUR PARENTS HOUSE. As a young dreamer you must have thousands of questions in your head all the time , and out of those questions some questions are those which you are not able to understand by your own self and it's totally understandable. Time changes for all, you can't be a kid whole of your life same way you can't stay young all the life , so its very necessary for the youth to understand that to be something eventually you will have to be independent in your life . TO MAKE YOURSELF , FIRSTLY YOU HAVE TO DESTROY YOURSELF. Clarity comes only after destroying the past baggage. It is a very simple phenomenon that to make something out of a rock you will have to firstly carve it and mold it. This implies on human life also , to be something big in life , firstly your mind destroys you and as long as you try to find answers to your questions, you are safe but the moment you stop, everything will sadly collapse. The thing is th...

Eating Disorders....... We generally see a lot of people facing this problem. What happens is that people who have this issue generally end up eating more than they stopped themselves to eat for the whole day. People having this problem have no control over their eating patterns. From the start of the day, they are acting very cautious and are eating very less so that they don't intake any extra caloric. But as soon as some problem pops, or they are nervous, or anxious or worried about something, they start eating anything and that too without any control on their mouth. I want to ask what is the sense of dieting the whole day when by the end of the day you are going to end up eating pizzas and pastas????? The main hidden question over here is: WHY PEOPLE ACTUALLY DO IT?? IS IT INTENTIONAL OR UNINTENTIONAL??? The kind of disorders can be very disturbing for others to watch as to people suffering from these issues are in a helpless but all this, " I AM NOT ABLE TO STOP IT"...

WHEN SHOULD THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENT AND KID BE SHIFTED ? So lets talk about the relationship between parent and their kids ,  some parents have a very emotional kind of bonding with their kids but in such case most of kids feel that their parents are either treating them as a child or they are not able to understand their kid . or  In other case , parents are not that much attached to their kid in childhood because they are waiting for their kid to grow up so they can connect with them intellectually , in such case kids are totally detach from parents and never be able to connect with them and the parents remain unsatisfied for their life that they don't have a strong bond with their child . Both of the cases are bad because most of the parents never able to figure out that when to just get rid of emotions and connect consciously with their kid . So in my opinion there is a slight difference between emotions and intellect . parents should connect with their kid emotion...

HEALING Remember the time when we were kids and we get cut while playing ,  What you done at that particular moment of time ? Medicine , Wrap up ? No , we didn't do anything , we just move on and start playing again and after some time the cut is fully fine and the tissues are developed and in no time we have our normal skind again. Exactly how this happens ? It happens because our body is intelligent , it heals itself without telling even you own body or mind . For sure body is not informing your body that it is doing its work but yeeahhhh...!! these two are connected . Every problem either physiologically or psychological starts in your head. There are proofs that problems do initiate in our mind first and then it reaches to that particular organ and then we take medicine for it to cure but it do give you signals that this problem is about to come in so and so time . We have two kind of thoughts in our head most of the time , Positive and Negative thoughts. So positive thoughts p...

Today is  "World Environment Day"   and everybody will post photos and say:  " save environment " Sadly, it is just for a day.... But are we that much serious about saving the planet?? Are we actually trying that much hard to save the planet earth?? Are we really that much concerned about our environment?? Are we actually thinking about our future generations?? First of all, our political system fails miserably to do anything about the surroundings and the environment. We are loosing our natural resources , because we use them to the peak without even thinking for one second that are these actually required or not. Are these important or urgent????? Population of the planet is increasing at a very high rate . Our needs are increasing at a much faster level and KUDOS TO  OUR GOVERNMENT, the government who is not able to figure out what to do!!!!!!!! So what to do now? As a human being who is living on this planet, we should feel our duty to save natural resources as ...

Life... Is it a destination where we all are eagerly wanting to reach?? Is it a race where at the end the all might GOD is going to decide who got the first, second and the third positions?? Is it the cliff of a mountain where the hikers are wishing to go in order to see the mind boggling view of this whole world?? What is it?????????? Is life all about competition?? Is life all about running?? Is life all about standing for the needs of others?? Is life all about enjoying the moments?? What is life actually??? These questions can be so hard to find the answers of!!!!! I being an engineer have a predefined mind wiring. I do give a proper definition to each and every word you ask me, but when it comes to life, for a person like me, it gets so much complicated to find all the answers. It get so much tough to put all these questions in my pre-defined jar of answers and satisfy me. After so much struggle with people around and with myself, I actually figured it out that LIFE IS ACTUALLY NO...