WHEN SHOULD THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENT AND KID BE SHIFTED ?
So lets talk about the relationship between parent and their kids ,
some parents have a very emotional kind of bonding with their kids but in such case most of kids feel that their parents are either treating them as a child or they are not able to understand their kid .
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In other case , parents are not that much attached to their kid in childhood because they are waiting for their kid to grow up so they can connect with them intellectually , in such case kids are totally detach from parents and never be able to connect with them and the parents remain unsatisfied for their life that they don't have a strong bond with their child .
Both of the cases are bad because most of the parents never able to figure out that when to just get rid of emotions and connect consciously with their kid .
So in my opinion there is a slight difference between emotions and intellect .
parents should connect with their kid emotionally till the age of 10 or as far as 15 , after that the kid is growing , may be not in parents eyes but in reality they are growing , they are looking at the world around them so their intellectual side is growing .
After that parents should teach their kid whatever they want to teach in a very logical way so that they find logic in conversation and actually agree with you , because when they find logic , they will find you more intellectual parent .
This way a parent have both emotional relation with their kid and intellectual relation.
DON'T TREAT YOUR KIDS AS KIDS WHEN THEY ARE NOT .
COME TO REALITY AND DO THE NEED OF TIME .


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